I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. If you decide to stay. Gem With Flaws Joined: While I do talk to my boyfriend everyday, it's usually not for long periods of time. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs. That deal with polygamy explained. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness. I've only been married for 1 year and the situation is kicking me right on my behind. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance.
But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable. I hope that things will improve and I can adjust to all this. We are best friends, and you will always have time for your best friend.
I seriously questioned the future of our relationship based on that fact alone. I asked, he refused. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. You will join the church. Always know the hospital and patients come first-it is just a given. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. You need to repent and change. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Hi, I'm so glad to be able to enter this forum.
You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. Ask her on dates. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms. We try to have a 'date' night although at the moment it is about once a month. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you.